The Upside of the Downturn
By Nashia KamalGet the Flash Player to see this player.
How financial hardship is bringing some New York City families closer together
Darren Cargill works 40 hours a week handing out fliers on a sweltering Manhattan street corner for the Working Families Party.
It’s his way to help his family survive the recession.
“My mom raised me and my twin brother alone,” Cargill, 19, said. “I have this job so I could help my mom.” His mother raised the two boys on a teacher’s salary and the family barely scraped by. Now that he’s older, Cargill is determined to earn money and share the responsibility.
For many New York City family households, there is an upside to the economic downturn: it’s bringing them closer together. With finances getting tighter in New York City households, many teens, such as Cargill, are appreciating the hard work and sacrifices of their parents. What’s more, as more people lose jobs, families are more reluctant to spend money, which leaves them more free time with each other.
In the last year, things got so bad financially for Cargill’s family, his mother had to choose between paying the rent and feeding their family. That’s when he went out and found a job. “When you don’t have money, family are the only people you can turn to,” he says.
Before the recession, Nzingha Prescod, 16, used to eat out apart from her mother and sister at least once a week. These days, though, the Brooklyn family is more likely to cook at home. “Instead of going out to dinner with friends and spending like, $30 a night, I stay home and eat what my mom cooks and just have a good time with my family,” Prescod said.
Before the recession, Prescod added, she did not think much about spending her mother’s money. But ever since the real estate downturn, her mother, a real estate broker, has been struggling to make commissions. “I appreciate the money now,” Prescod said. “She works hard for it.”
In some cases, the recession brings older and younger generations together, as it did in Brooklyn teenager Zach Sano’s family.
Sano’s grandfather moved in with him and his mother a year ago because of financial difficulties. His elderly grandfather could no longer afford his rent.
Sano, 16, said having his grandfather around has been a big change. Before that, Sano saw his grandfather about once a year. Nowadays, he is a constant in their lives. “Having him around is cool,” Sano said. “He’s around when I need a guy to talk to.”
However, they do occasionally fight over the bathroom, Sano admitted, laughing. “We clash sometimes, but we wouldn’t be this close if he hadn’t moved in,” he said.
Cargill, for his part, says the financial hardship his family has been through has brought them closer. He feels that the closeness that has developed between him and his family will last. “Personally, my family’s a lot tighter now,” he said. “That’s not going to change.”

